The Dirty Gin Martini

By: Marjie Martini

Is it possible for women to have sex with out getting emotionally attached? I have buddy who I have been friends with for years, we discuss everything and both love a stellar martini. A few weeks ago he decided that I needed to branch out of truity fruity chick martinis and try something more masculine. This is how I entered into the realms of the Dirty Gin martini and the great debate of emotional attachment.

What do most people think of when it comes to gin? Yuck! Panty remover! Flashback: First bad alcoholic experience: where you drank something weird that was stolen from your parent’s liquor cabinet and then they spent the rest of the evening worshiping the ivory porcelain god? Well my flashback is cheap gin. As I explained my fear of gin to my buddy, I was told that there would be no cheap gin involved, so I decided to embrace my masculinity and get dirty. This concoction is simple and I was told it would be my next great love. Top shelf gin and vermouth with olives. The part that makes it dirty was the addition of just a bit of olive juice. As I took my first sip I realized that this was no girlie martini this was a man’s martini: strong and stiff, just the way I like them!! The addition of the olive juice gave this martini that nasty edge that I love. About half way through the Dirty Gin our conversation produced a very interesting question.

“What is the true definition of a Bootie Call?”

After much discussion our definition is a true bootie call is when you call someone with the soul purpose of getting laid. You have no emotional attachment to this person and there are no expectations. Because you both agree that it is just sex.

Our debate started when my buddy stated that women can not have sex without getting emotionally attached. He had read a survey that stated 25% of women vs. 95% of men can have sex without emotional attachment. He thought the survey was crap because he had never met a woman who could remain emotionally unattached, except for me. (The joke is that I am a man trapped in a woman’s body.) I argued that when a woman hits her mid 30’s she is more secure in her sexuality and can use a man just for sex. After the second martini my buddy concluded that men get attached to women, not by sex; they get attached to the chase. It is not until they have secured the capture of the female creature do they let their emotions become involved. During the chase they wear their amour to defend against potential rejection. I concluded: even though women participate in the bootie call they are still emotionally attached. They keep engaging in the sex in the hopes that it will develop into something more. I had known several women that had been hurt playing the bootie call game. My girlfriend had once received a bootie call, when she arrived for some action at 2am; the guy never answered the door! Brutal rejection! It was a dangerous game. She is one woman who has never dabbled in the bootie call again.

Conclusion:

I will always let a man know when he is right! In the case of the Dirty Gin martini my buddy was right! I love it! It is stiff and strong, the olive juice gives it a hazy appearance and a nasty edge that makes it a little dangerous. If a woman can remain emotionally unattached then she is safe to play the bootie call game. It can be fun to play with fire but when you are not honest with yourself is when you can end up burned. The debate about whether men and women can have sex without getting emotionally attached well that will forever remain a hazy mystery.

Intuitive Thoughts By Marjie Martini

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