The Fantasy Martini

By: Marjie Martini

As always insight comes to me in the latest hour of the evening.. This evening is all about the solo night at home, just me, my martini and my fantasies. Everyone has fantasies; sometimes it is our dreams that keep us sane, in an insane world. Fantasies can range from money to appearance to sex. A great fantasy can help you fall asleep at night but an even better fantasy can wake you up very pleasantly early in the morning. It was a dream that inspired me to make the Fantasy martini. This is a martini that is so romantically beautiful that you feel you are sitting on Fantasy Island with Tattoo with every sip.

The Fantasy Martini is a blend of Vodka, Pineapple Vodka, Cranberry Vodka and Peach Schnapps. This martini is allowed to stand for a few moments and then gently shaken before it is poured into a chilled martini glass; this allows the flavors to fuse together. The thing that makes this martini so attractive is the perfect garnish of rose petals and a cherry. When you slowly sip this martini the sensations that run through your body are amazing. It is so smooth and sweetly sensual that all you want to do is close your eyes and let your mind go!

The mind is a very powerful thing; it can take you places that you are forbidden to go in reality. Men and women have completely different types of fantasies. Women fantasize about romance and falling in love. The sensual touches, intimate looks and light feathery kisses from some unattainable gorgeous movie star. We fantasize about everything that happens before having sex but not generally about the act of sex itself. Men fantasize about the forbidden fruit, every kind of sex that he hasn’t had. Sex with his best friend’s wife, the threesome, and everything in between. What is at the root of everyone’s fantasy? Is it mystery? Or is it the constant search for what we don’t or can’t have! The line of “nothing is ever good enough” Are fantasies what get people into trouble later in life, is it that the fantasies get repressed and then grow and grow to become larger. There is a difference between fantasy and fetishes? Yes, fantasies are healthy and fetishes well, they are just unhealthy!

It seems that everyone has fantasies but people very rarely talk about them, even among girlfriends, and we know that woman generally talk about everything. Fantasies are something that is kept very private, they only seem to be discussed when you feel completely secure with someone that you have intimate with for awhile. After you have been dating someone for some time eventually the fantasy conversation comes up, this is when you find out exactly how weird the person you are sleeping with really is! Trust me on this one, the most normal guy can all of a sudden be a freak! The fantasies usually start out all sexy, different positions or places or with other people.

"Damn,
I wish I had never let him in;"

Women once they have tried it they are over it! After those fantasies have been accomplished the conversation comes up again but with a new twist. The fantasies have gone to the next level, this is where people confess that they like to go to swing parties, cross dress or are into bondage. This is where the fulfilling of your partners fantasies can push your own personal boundaries. Sometimes partners are respectful when their partner’s boundary has been reached and the subject never comes up again but then there are the partners that keep subtlety suggesting a fantasy hoping that their partner will change their mind. It is the pressure of fantasy fulfillment!

Fantasy fulfillment is a very weird place to be. The questions just keep coming up? How far do I go to make my partner happy? Maybe it is not really that weird, if he is into it? With those thoughts come the feelings of insecurity. Am I weird because I am not into the kinky stuff? Will he leave me if he gets bored? Why is our sex life not enough? I must be doing something wrong? This is not a very healthy place to be! How far out of your comfort zone do you go to fulfill your partner’s fantasies? What is it with some people that are always looking to push the envelope? Is it that we as a society are really really bored? Or is it that we are so over sexually stimulated by mass media that we are no longer content with good old fashioned sex?

Conclusion:

The fantasy martini is a drink that takes you away from the very first sip just like our own fantasies that allow us to temporally escape from our insane world. This martini releases all the restrictions so that you can just let your mind go! The flavors fuse together for an incredible sweet taste, this amazing sweetness is what it is like to explore your fantasies with a respectful and intimate partner. Fantasies are a normal and healthy thing, pressuring someone into fantasy fulfillment or having fetishes is not. Fantasies can be extremely erotic just like when you first look at the Fantasy martini; with its rose petals and cherry you know that all your dreams are going to come true.

Intuitive Thoughts By Marjie Martini

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