The Player Martini

By: Marjie Martini

As always insight comes to me in the latest hour of the evening. On this evening I was surrounded by an amazing group of men and women. What made this group interesting was the fact that, with 6 women and 4 men, none of them were having sexual relations. The conversation was witty and hilarious, with nothing was held back. There was no censoring because the spouses/other halves were not present. However, there was lots of harmless flirting taking place. The martini that was getting consumed was also something that encouraged the flirtation, and it was something that left nothing held back

The Player martini is a martini that leaves you wondering, "What the hell just happened?" It is a cross between Sourz sour apple, which can be just plain nasty, and Vanilla Vodka, which is sweet but in a confusing type of way. When you add some pineapple juice and lemon zest, this martini really takes off and the finish leaves nothing undone. Being true to its name, this martini is all about the score.

Being that we were all consuming these intriguing martinis, the conversation led to what is a true player? I was interested in the response from the men and women, being that there were a few players at the table; some admitted they were players, and others were still in denial. But by the looks that went around the table we all knew who was in denial. Everyone agreed that there are both male and female players and that the criteria for a player are the same regardless of sex. A player has to be a very passionate person, with a lot of self confidence. They are usually attractive but not totally gorgeous. A male player is very charismatic and a female player is very flirtatious. The players generally love the opposite sex and are all about the chase, but they are also all about how much sex they can score.

There are two main types of players in the world. The first is the asshole/bitch player: this is a person that works the opposite sex with lots of attention and goes in for what they want: sex. When they get it, they suddenly disappear. No more phone calls, dates, nothing. They ditch the conquest and move on to the next one. There is no subtle let down, just the complete blow off. If you accidentally run into them later they are polite but stand-offish and exit very quickly, leaving the conquest wondering,

“What the hell just happened?”

The second type of player is the one that is A.D.D. (attention deficit). This is a person that is actually very genuine, but they just cannot get their shit together. They are the ones that make the great first impression and then ask you out, but call back later and cancel. They apologize and say they will make it up to you, but then it happens again. They say they are crazy busy, yet they are always out doing something social. Their focus is scattered, and when you are out with them they are scoping the room for other people. If they can keep it together enough to get some sex, then the aftermath is the definite blow off.

This is usually a slowly returned phone call or the "really busy" excuse, which is generally because they are focusing on something else! These are the players that do not mean to cheat on their partners, but they cannot stop looking. They leave the conquest wondering, "What the hell is wrong with me?" or, "What did I do wrong?"

Both of these types of players come in the aware and denial versions. The aware versions are slightly better because when they are confronted they will admit to the conquest that they were just in it for the sex. The denial version is not good; they are the ones that when confronted make up some long song and dance and leave the conquest feeling confused and generally insecure. They are also the ones that string the conquest along forever because they cannot handle the confrontation of ending the sexual relationship, so these are the ones that are usually caught on a date with someone else.

Conclusion:

The Player martini is a combination of a little bit nasty with something confusingly sweet. Just like a person that plays for sex. They are all about the "Score" and sometimes they are nasty and don’t care about the other person’s feelings. They just get the sex and move on. Sometimes the person playing for sex is a little confused and cannot focus on just one person. They are sweet and inside they are confused, but they are also all about the "Score". This martini can give you great self confidence and it leaves you feeling very flirtatious, but just remember that when you flirt, if you don’t hold something back you might just be another conquest for the Player. And being the score is not the greatest finish.

Intuitive Thoughts By Marjie Martini

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