The
Addiction Martini
As
always insight comes to me in the latest hour of the evening.
On this evening the insight was brought to me by a dear
friend, who I share several similarities with. One of
our similarities is our desire for not just a good martini
but a great martini. On this night not only were we comparing
our addiction to the wrong lover but also our addiction
to the most incredible martini? This Addiction martini
is one that you absolutely can not say no to. It is a
martini that when the bartender asks you if you want another
you have to say Yes! It is a martini that gets you all
fired up, makes you crazy, but it is a martini that you
can not stop. It has a desire to please all its own.
The Addiction martini is a
pleasurable mixture of white rum, coconut rum, and banana
liqueur. Then you add the most delicious fresh pineapple
juice. This is a martini that may sound a little sweet
but it is just a delicate mixture of flavors that it is
incredibly smooth and sinful it makes you believe that
you have only had a few. This martini is the epitome of
when it is good, it is soooo good and when it is bad oh
god it is bad. It is just like when you are in an addictive
relationship, even though you know that you should get
out, it just feels way too good that you can not say no!
Even when you know that is the worst thing you should
do!
Addictive relationships,
AAAAHHHHH they are the nemious of many people in this
world. What is it about being with someone that is so
good but then is so very very bad? How does it happen
that when you meet someone, it can be so incredible in
the beginning? The lust combined with the sex and the
wanting to be with this person every waking moment? When
they are up it is all good! Being with them is like the
best drug ever, they bring to such amazing highs of laughter,
they make you feel so good, and they drive you crazy with
the never ending ensaishable sex. All you want to do is
be with this person and make them happy because they are
so addictive you just can not get enough of them. But
slowly over a period of time you notice that the ups are
less and less and the downs, well they are just becoming
more and more increasingly ugly. The moodiness is very
subtle but it seems to be occurring more frequently, it
seems to creep up through out an evening. So what started
out as a great night ends up in a fight or a mellow Sunday
is all of a sudden a day of issues and dilemma about what
you are not doing to fulfill the relationship. This is
when the addiction becomes destructive.
“The
Addiction is so strong that you start to crave those moments
of uncontrollable giddiness and lustful bliss.”
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