Well that caused pandemonium
at the bar. I am not sure if it was that comment or
the comment from the bartender “that given the
opportunity all men will cheat.” My girlfriend
was on a tirade, she was appalled and offended that
cheating was not simply black and white. The conversation
then continued on to what defines cheating?
I was really starting
to enjoy the lemon finish of my martini when this conversation
started to get seriously interesting. Was touching cheating?
Was kissing cheating? How about a blow job? Is is cheating
only defined as penetration? Where do you draw the line?
Is flirting cheating? How about having an erotic dream
about someone other than your spouse? Is that cheating
or just normal human nature? Is it natural for humans
to be monogamous? Are we meant to mate for life? Or
do we consciously choose to be with one person. The
debate was fierce and passionate about what actions
dictated cheating. It was proven that woman cheat just
as much as men do and are generally more calculated
about it. A man will cheat impulsively without considering
the consequences where a woman will way the consequences
and decide to cheat based on whether she can get away
with it. Once we calmed down my moralistic girlfriend,
we presented her with the perfect cheating scenario.
A scenario where she could cheat, not get caught and
no one would get hurt. She would never see this person
again and she would be the only one who would ever know.
If this was the scene would she cross the line and cheat?
I watched her face as she contemplated the situation,
as she took another sip of her martini she gave the
perfect answer. It would depend on how she felt about
her husband at that time! Love it! Even with her, life
was not so black and white; there was always room for
the perfect grey answer.
Conclusion:
It is nice to try out something
different every once in awhile; the same old vodka martini
can get a little boring, just like sleeping with the
same person every night. The anticipation of sampling
something new is sometimes better than the actual taste
of the martini. The Between the Sheets martini was exciting
and smooth because it something different, I do not
think I would never go back and drink it again because
after a little while it leaves a bitter after taste,
kind of like guilt that you will carry around if you
are a cheater. If you are always sexually satisfied
with a partner and your martini, then you will never
have the desire to try something new! Why would you
when the good old vodka martini is so very satisfying
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