When my two girlfriends went to visit the ladies room, the southern boys made the comment that they were amazed that colored woman could be so intelligent. I just about fell off my bar stool! What were they talking about? My girlfriends were not colored, one was Asian and the other is Native American! The southern boys tried to explain that they were being complimentary and that they had never had such a long conversation with any women that were black. I was shaking my head in disbelief; I could not believe what I had heard. Was it the martinis? Or was I actually sitting at table with two men that were racist? The southern men tried to explain their comments. However, they just dug themselves a deeper and deeper hole. I listened speechless to the ignorant and vile comments that came from their mouths. I realized that these grown men had never been exposed to the world outside their southern box. They did not have similar views to us. We just accept people for who they are, regardless of the color of their skin or shape of their eyes. These men just see black; it was sad that the racism had been programmed into their brains since childhood.
I thanked the gentlemen for the martinis and upon my girlfriends return informed them that we would be continuing on with our evening, by ourselves. Later, the four of us were dancing the night away. I realized that we all are different, one short Canadian blonde, one tall Irish redhead, one brunette Native American and one dark brown Asian. We all looked different and danced different but inside we were all the same. I felt an overwhelming sense of pity for the southern men we had left behind; it was so sad that they were so ignorant. If only they had been open minded they would have been out on the dance floor with us and having and out of the box experience.
Conclusion:
Our lives are so structured, we are dictated to by our machines and our desire to be constantly in touch. It is like the presentation of the Black and White martini, this martini is structured by its layers of different alcohols. When you stir the Black and White martini you receive great strength and sweetness just like when you are spontaneous and let loose. The stirring can cause you to have experiences that are out of your normal realm. If you are ignorant and never open your mind up to the differences in our world you will forever be left behind. The world’s diversity of languages, religions and cultures is a great treasure because it gives us the opportunity to recognize ourselves in each other. When it comes down to it we are the same, particularly when we are all drinking the Black and White martini.
If you want to step out of your box then this is the martini for you. Something totally different can make you realize that we are all the same no matter how different we look. This martini is unique in how it is made, how it looks and definitely how it tastes.
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